How Can a Christian be Faithful in Difficult Forgiving Situations? | Romans 12:9-21 | Pastor Jeff Smith

In the first week of our “Ask Me Anything” sermon series, Pastor Smith tackles how Christians can be faithful even in difficult situations regarding forgiveness and reconciliation. Jesus gives us essential teaching in the Parable of the Unforgiving Servant (Matthew 18:21-35), and St. Paul also gives us helpful exhortation in Romans 12:9-21. We know we are called to forgive just as God in Christ has forgiven us. But what about when the other person isn’t sorry or won’t try to reconcile? How can I find peace? How can I avoid harboring hatred and bitterness? Join Pastor Smith as we turn to God’s Word for wisdom and guidance.

A wise question from a wise man: Why do you want to know?

Life is full of difficult forgiveness questions. We must turn to God’s Word for the wisdom to faithfully navigate these situations.

Matthew 18:21-35–The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant

Look at each other the same way God looks at you– “cross-eyed.”

Some Considerations and Advice for Faithful, Forgiving Christians:

Romans 12:18– “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.”

When you withhold forgiveness, you are hurting yourself more than the other person.

Never stop praying for those who have sinned against you.

Strive to always forgive like Jesus. And when you fail, receive again the forgiveness of Jesus and rejoice.

Discussion Guide

  1. What is the hardest thing about forgiving and reconciling with someone who has sinned against you?

  2. How did looking at another person “cross-eyed” help you forgive them?

  3. Think of a person with whom you are currently at odds due to conflict/sin. Have you tried praying for this person? What would a regular prayer for this person be like? Make a plan to begin praying.

  4. How does the unlimited, incomparable forgiveness of God for you help give clarity, comfort, and wisdom as you strive to be faithful in forgiving like He does?

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